What We Do -- Our Activities and Events


The Mark is open 52 weeks a year and annually hosts at least 48 classes, 140 play parties, 36 munches, 48 discussion forums, 24 workshops, 4 burlesque shows, 2 charitable fundraisers, a vendor fair, an erotic film festival, and serves as a meeting space for local kink-positive and sex-positive groups. All of which can be found in our rolling three-month event calendar (found at the top of this list of "sticky" threads) with links to specific event discussion posts when they go live.)

Kink Education

  • "Welcome" Series Classes: These monthly classes cover the topics of boundaries and consent, the history and legal issues surrounding kink, as well as the rather specialized vocabulary, customs, protocols, decorum, etiquette, and policies encountered at The Mark and elsewhere.
  • "BDSM Basics" Classes: Local experts present on subjects such as play safety, technical skills, and philosophical concepts of particular interest to those new to the world of BDSM, fetish and kink.
  • "BDSM Extensions" Classes: Featuring out-of-state subject matter experts who present more advanced play techniques and topics from a non-local perspective.
  • "Adventures in Kink" Classes: These classes offer members the opportunity to present on a favorite topic and, as such, are rather pop-up in nature.

Social Events

Munches

  • Welcome Munches: These open munches are restaurant get-togethers for folx wanting to attend a play party at The Mark, but who lack the required member-sponsor.
  • Fresh Kink Nashville (FKN) Munch -- This monthly welcome munch is specifically intended for (and limited to) those aged 18-30.

Themed Parties

  • Decades: 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, 00s, 10s
  • Holidays: New Years, Halloween, Mardi Gras, Independence Day, Pride Weekend
  • Musical Genres: Classical/Opera, Rave/Industrial/Techno/Dubstep, Classic Rock, Disco, Quiet Storm
  • Fetish Balls and Pot-Luck Galas
  • Cosplay, Game of Thrones, Harry Potter, Sports, Space Western, Time Travel, Summer Camp, Back-to-School, Prom, Uniforms, Red Nights
  • Game Nights, Movie Nights, Not-Just-Singles Mixers

Special Interest Play Parties

  • Spanking
  • Whips
  • Shibari/Rope
  • Sensual/Sensation Play
  • Heavy S&M Play
  • Feminine Domination
  • Male Masturbation

Population-Specific Parties

  • Blood, Sweat, and Queers Party (self-identified LGBTQIA+ only)
  • Women-Only/Men-Only Parties (as self-identified)
  • FKN Party (18-30 only)
  • People of Color Party (PoC only)
  • Littles Play Date
  • Primal Party

Member/Commercial Rentals

  • Private Parties
  • Showers
  • Meetings
  • Weddings/Commitment Ceremonies
  • Photo/Video Shoots
  • Dan Savage's [HUMP! Film Festival][https://www.humpfilmfest.com/tour]
  • "No Restraints" Burlesque

Outreach

Charitable Events

  • Annual CPI Benefit Auction
  • Fundraisers for the CPI Benevolence Fund -- "Kinksters Helping Kinksters!"
  • Clothing/Food Drives for:

The Arts

  • Theatrical Productions and Art Shows
  • Live Music Performances
  • Photography/Drawing Workshops
  • Film Viewings

Discussion and Support Groups

  • Recovery Support
  • Sexual Violence Survivor Support
  • Ethical Non-Monogamy
  • Kink and Religion
  • Kinky Book Clubs
  • Authority Exchange
  • Community-Driven Topical Roundtables

Community Enrichment

  • Leather, Sex-Positive, and Polyamory Affinity Groups
  • Fitness/Sports/Activity/Craft Groups
  • CPI Volunteer Trainings
  • Party Host Training
  • Educator Workshop
  • LGBTQIA+ Cultural Humility Workshops
  • Conflict De-Escalation and Active Shooter Classes
  • Trauma-Informed Response Training
  • Safety/Play Space Monitor (PSM) Trainings
  • First Aid/CPR/AED Certification Trainings
  • Voter Registration and Get-Out-The-Vote Drives
  • Ad Hoc Activism and Advocacy